Simple steps to being yourself

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“Be yourself” is a phrase you’ve probably heard since you were little. It’s been used over and over again, to the point where people don’t delve deeply into its meaning. Or, dare I say, we probably don’t know how to be ourselves? This is a challenge that you and I may have struggled with at some point in our lives. Hence, our food for thought today. “How to be yourself.”

This post discusses six ways you and I can learn to be ourselves.

1. Understand who you are

Knowing yourself is the most important thing when it comes to learning to be yourself. Once you understand who you are, you know what you need to do. This way, you overcome a lot of frustration from putting too much effort into unnecessary things. I understand life is about taking a risk, but if you do that, you’ll find the best areas to experiment in the first place. Once you know yourself, you’ll understand your purpose, and you’ll begin to make a more significant impact in your life.

2. Cherish who you are

First, let me encourage you by affirming that no one is perfect. We all have our quirks, but the important thing is to appreciate them. You may see yourself very differently than others and think that’s a bad thing, but the truth is that you are unique. Don’t be afraid to show your uniqueness or allow it to be noticed out there.

3. Accept your weaknesses

To learn to be yourself, you must recognize and accept your weaknesses. You can’t turn a weakness into a strength if you are busy denying the weakness’s existence.

4. Don't strive to please others

Most of the time, we make a big mistake by getting upset about how other people see us. Dear reader, as long as you don’t do anything bad to them, don’t apologize for your personality. Stand by who you are, and don’t you dare strive to please anyone.

5. Avoid negative thoughts

No matter how much negative thoughts haunt your mind, learn to stay positive. Remember that you are strong. Therefore, don’t let them overwhelm you.

Read more: 5 ways on how to avoid negativity

6. Strive for what you want

Last but not least, how you can be yourself is to do what you want. Do you have a dream or a desire to do something new? Well, just because we said to be yourself doesn’t necessarily mean that you are prevented from exploring. Chase your dreams and stay true to who you are.

2 thoughts on “Simple steps to being yourself”

  1. Nice tips. As an immigrant, it has taken me a while to realise that I can be myself AND integrate myself in the new society. Thanks 😊

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